I can judge myself a lot for divorcing their dad and creating a more challenging lifestyle for them. No one likes switching houses. No one likes not having their parents under one roof. No one has liked all the years of holiday juggles, who do I spend my birthday with, where do I wake up this year on Christmas Day. It's terrible for kids, I'm not going to sugar coat that. But we, the three of us, have made it work. Have made our bond stronger.